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Cheek kissing is a common way to greet people or show how you feel.

US Navy 080210-N-5292M-001 Lt. Robert O'Connell, assigned to Combined Joint Task Force-Horn of Africa (CJTF-HOA), kisses his daughter after returning to the Naval Air Terminal at Naval Station Norfolk
US Navy 080210-N-5292M-001 Lt. Robert O'Connell, assigned to Combined Joint Task Force-Horn of Africa (CJTF-HOA), kisses his daughter after returning to the Naval Air Terminal at Naval Station Norfolk

People use this gesture to show friendship or family ties. It can also be used to say congratulations or to comfort someone. It is a way to show respect to others. This simple act helps people connect in many different cultures. It is used widely in the Middle East and the Mediterranean. You can also find it in parts of Europe, Latin America, and the Horn of Africa.

There are different ways to perform a cheek kiss. Most people lean forward toward each other. They might touch cheek to cheek or touch their lips to a cheek. Usually, the gesture is repeated on the other side. People often alternate between the left and right cheeks. The number of kisses can range from one to four. In some places, people might also hug or shake hands at the same time. These small movements can change depending on the country or the specific situation.

Different regions have their own special rules for these greetings.

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In France, the custom is called "faire la bise." The number of kisses can change depending on which city you are in. In the Netherlands and Belgium, people often use three kisses to celebrate birthdays. In the former Yugoslavia, you can even tell where someone is from by counting their kisses. Croats and Bosniaks often give two kisses. However, Serbs typically give three kisses as a traditional greeting. In Serbia and Montenegro, men often kiss each other three times during big celebrations like weddings.

Rules about who can kiss whom vary across the world.

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William-Adolphe Bouguereau (1825-1905) - A Little Coaxing (1890)

In many parts of Southern Europe, women kiss both men and women. In Italy, men often kiss other men who are relatives or friends. In Bulgaria, however, men kissing is rare and can feel awkward. In the Middle East, cheek kissing is very common between men. In Lebanon, a typical greeting involves three kisses in a left-right-left pattern. In the Philippines, the gesture is often just touching cheek to cheek without using lips. In Indonesia, some people call this "cipika-cipiki."

Understanding these customs helps people avoid being rude.

In places where cheek kissing is the norm, refusing a kiss can seem unfriendly. If someone cannot kiss, they might explain they have a cold to avoid causing offense. While some cultures prefer handshakes or hugs, others see the cheek kiss as a vital part of life. Even world leaders use these gestures during international meetings. Whether it is a quick hello or a warm celebration, these kisses show how humans share respect and care.

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