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Xaviera Hollander is a Dutch author and former madam who became a well-known public figure. She was born Xaviera de Vries on June 15, 1943. Her life has involved many different roles, from a secretary to a successful writer. She is most famous for her memoir, "The Happy Hooker: My Own Story." This book helped make her a household name in the 1970s. Her career has spanned books, films, and even a bed-and-breakfast.

Hollander's early years were shaped by significant historical events. She was born in Surabaya, which was then part of the Japanese-occupied Dutch East Indies. This location is known today as part of Indonesia. Because of the war, she spent her first years living in a Japanese-run internment camp. After the Japanese occupation ended, her family moved back to the Netherlands. This period of her life was marked by the instability of the Second World War.

As a young adult, Hollander lived in several different countries. She moved from Amsterdam to Johannesburg, South Africa, to be near her stepsister. In South Africa, she became engaged to an American economist named John Weber. After their engagement ended, she traveled to New York City. In New York, she initially worked as a secretary for the Dutch consulate. However, she resigned from that position in 1968 to enter a different profession.

In New York, Hollander entered the sex industry as a call girl. She reportedly earned up to $1,000 in a single night. Soon after, she transitioned from working alone to running a business. She opened a brothel named the Vertical Whorehouse. Through this business, she became a leading madam in New York City. This career path eventually led to legal trouble. In 1971, the New York Police arrested her for prostitution. This arrest resulted in her being forced to leave the United States.

Despite leaving America, Hollander found great success as a writer. Her first major work, "The Happy Hooker: My Own Story," was published in 1971. The book was created through a specific process. Robin Moore took Hollander's dictation to record the contents. Yvonne Dunleavy served as the ghostwriter, which means she wrote the actual text based on those words. Hollander also wrote "Child No More," a book about the loss of her mother. For 35 years, she also wrote an advice column titled "Call Me Madam" for Penthouse magazine.

Hollander's influence extended into many forms of media and entertainment. In the early 1970s, she released a spoken-word album titled "Xaviera!" on the GRT Records label. This album featured her discussing her philosophy on sex and prostitution. She also sang a cover of the Beatles song "Michelle" on the record. In 1974, a company called Reiss Games, Inc. released an erotic board game called "Xaviera's Game." She also starred in the 1975 semi-autobiographical film "My Pleasure Is My Business."

Her personal life included several significant relationships and changes. During the 1970s, she lived in Toronto and married an antique dealer named Frank Applebaum. She also had a long-term partner named John Drummond, a Scottish intellectual. While she once called him the love of her life, she later shared in an interview that he could be destructive toward her. Around 1997, Hollander stated that she had "turned gay" and began a relationship with a Dutch poet named Dia. In 2007, she married a Dutch man named Philip de Haan in Amsterdam.

Xaviera Hollander and Malcolm Bennett appearing on "After Dark", 28 October 1989
Xaviera Hollander and Malcolm Bennett appearing on "After Dark", 28 October 1989

Today, Hollander's life continues to be a subject of interest in various media. She has been depicted in five different films, including the 2008 documentary "The Happy Hooker: Portrait of a Sexual Revolutionary." She also appeared on the British discussion program "After Dark" in 1989. In 2005, she began a new chapter by operating a bed-and-breakfast. This business, called "Xaviera's Happy House," was located in her own home in Amsterdam. Her life remains a complex example of how one person can navigate many different social and professional worlds.

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