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A wedding is a formal ceremony that unites two people in marriage.

Catholic wedding
Catholic wedding

These celebrations vary greatly across different cultures, ethnicities, and religions. They also change based on social class, country, and sexual orientation. Most weddings follow a specific sequence of symbolic actions. A couple typically exchanges marriage vows to make solemn promises. They also present gifts, such as rings, flowers, or money. Finally, a celebrant or authority figure makes a public proclamation of the marriage.

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Many ceremonies include specific sensory elements like music, poetry, or religious readings. In Western traditions, a processional song is played as the couple walks down the aisle. A famous example is the "Bridal Chorus" from Richard Wagner's opera, Lohengrin. However, this specific song is usually not played at Jewish weddings due to Wagner's anti-Semitic views. Some couples choose modern melodies, such as "One Love" by Bob Marley. In the United Kingdom, civil ceremonies are legally forbidden from using music with religious connotations.

Clothing is a central part of wedding identity and tradition. Many people follow the Western custom of a white wedding dress and veil. This trend became popular after Queen Victoria chose a white gown for her marriage. Some suggest her choice reflected values of purity, while others saw it as a sign of extravagance.

Wedding veil
Wedding veil

Other cultures use distinct traditional garments. A bride in Korea might wear a traditional robe, while a man in Scotland may wear a kilt.

Scotland Wedding
Scotland Wedding

In Vietnam, the ao dai is common. In South Asia, many wear a sari, lehenga, or sherwani. An Orthodox Jewish groom might wear a white robe called a kittel under a chuppah.

Symbolic objects often carry deep historical or spiritual meanings. The use of wedding rings is common in Europe, America, and the Indian subcontinent. One theory suggests the Romans believed in the vena amoris. This was thought to be a blood vessel running from the fourth finger directly to the heart. Wearing a ring on this finger symbolized a connection between hearts.

Second marriage of S.M.I. D. Pedro I
Second marriage of S.M.I. D. Pedro I

While European men have worn bands since Roman times, American grooms did not adopt them until the early 20th century. Historians note that the idea of this being an "ancient" practice may actually be a modern invention.

Rituals often mark the end of the ceremony, known as the "send off." In Ethiopia, the wedding party might bow and kiss the elders' knees. In India and Malaysia, guests often throw rice or seeds at the newlyweds. This act symbolizes prosperity and fertility. Some cultures choose to toss shoes instead of rice. In the United States, weddings are a massive social and economic event. Approximately 2 million people marry each year. Close to 70 million people attend weddings and often spend more than $100 on a gift.

Rådberg-Eikner Wedding group 2 2017
Rådberg-Eikner Wedding group 2 2017

After the ceremony, couples often hold a wedding reception or wedding breakfast. This event features various social rituals and celebrations. Guests may listen to speeches from the best man, the groom, or the father of the bride. The newlyweds often share their first dance as a couple. They might also cut an elegant wedding cake together. Recent trends have introduced new dances, such as a father-daughter dance or a mother-son dance.

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Mahnalan lava - häät

Legal rules also shape where weddings can happen. In England and Wales, the Marriage Act 1994 expanded the available venues. Before this law, weddings were mostly limited to religious buildings or civil register offices. Now, weddings can take place in many "approved premises." This includes hotels, museums, and even baseball fields or football grounds. Some outdoor locations are also allowed under updated regulations from 2022. These laws show how the social institution of marriage continues to evolve within different legal systems.

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